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New in Bhava 2.2.0 · Women first
She asks first.
A parchi is the folded slip of paper passed across a room. On Bhava, a verified woman writes one line to the men in her Drop. They write back on it, in their own words. She unfolds the replies one at a time, without photos or names, and keeps only the ones she likes.
In reviewOn Android now. Coming to iPhone in the 2.2.0 update, in review.
- Verified women only
- No photos, no names
- 24 hours to reply
Step by step
How a parchi works
Four moments, from her one line to a chat. It all happens inside one evening's Drop.
She writes one line
Before she looks at anyone, a verified woman writes one question to the men in tonight's Drop.
One parchi per Drop
It lands on his phone
Her question arrives on a folded slip. No photo, no name. He writes back on it in his own words.
Up to 200 letters
He writes back, 24 hours
Each man has a day to answer on the slip. Then it closes, and his reply waits for her, folded.
Closes on its own
She unfolds, blind
One reply at a time: his words, age, area and your Kundali score. She keeps it or lets it go.
Keep = a match
Why words first
Words before photos
A parchi is read for what it says. Six rules keep it that way.
Verified women only
Only a woman whose selfie we have checked can send a parchi. She starts it; he can't.
Blind replies
She sees his words and three facts, nothing else. His photo and name appear only if she keeps it.
Age · area · Kundali score
24 hours, then it closes
He has a day to write back. After that no more replies come in; she can still read what did.
Keep is a match
When she keeps a reply, the chat opens straight away, with the parchi pinned at the top.
A let-go is never shown
If she lets his parchi go, he isn't told. It simply stays folded.
One parchi per Drop
One line an evening, to that evening's Drop. Nothing to compare, nothing to send in bulk.
For him
A slip to write on, not a form
Her question lands on his phone, folded. No prompts to copy, no lines from a list: just his own words.
- His own words, 200 lettersEnough for one honest answer. It stays folded until she opens it.
- Your parchisEvery slip he's answered sits in one list, with when it closes.
- When she keeps itHe sees her name and your score together, and the chat opens with his parchi pinned.
Her parchi
What does a good Sunday look like for you?
Early cricket with the building gang, then my mother’s rajma, then a book till someone makes me do chores.
Still Bhava underneath
Same Drop, same score, same family
- 7 pm
The Drop
A parchi goes to the men in your evening Drop. No feed, no endless list.
- of 36
The Kundali score
Every reply shows your score out of 36, the same ashtakoota match as every introduction.
The parents’ view
Family you invite still sees matches in their own calmer view. For parents
Questions
Questions about Parchi
Is this live?
Yes, on Android in Bhava 2.2.0. The iPhone 2.2.0 update is in App Store review and brings Parchi to iPhone.
Who can send a parchi?
Verified women only, one parchi an evening, to the men in that evening's Drop.
What does she see before she keeps one?
His words, age, area and your Kundali score. His photo and name appear only when she keeps it.
Does he see if I let his parchi go?
Never. A parchi that's let go stays folded. He only hears back about the ones that were kept.
Can I skip it tonight?
Yes. A parchi is optional. Your Drop works the same whether you send one or not.
Every introduction on Bhava already comes with a Kundali score, and chats open only on a mutual yes. What Bhava does for women
Parchi is in the app now
On Android now. Coming to iPhone in the 2.2.0 update, in review.
Bhava · matrimony with Kundali matching